A few words to my 16 year old son, Ian
Ian and his mom are members of the local Unitarian Universalist Society. This morning features a "Coming of Age" ceremony, for which my younger son has been preparing over the last few months. There's an informal ceremony, where a dozen kids will read their personal creedos, a group musical performance, and the chance for parents to speak on behalf of their kids. Each family is allowed two minutes(!!) My wife's "speech" is a little longer.
Congratulations Ian, on this special day.
Before I address Ian, I’d like to say to the Unitarian Society: Thank you – for all you have given to my son; for you acceptance and attention and love; for providing a place where he can grow and feel secure in his developing convictions; where he can learn the value of his unique journey.
Ian, like your mom, I’m very proud of all you’ve accomplished thus far. And it’s exciting to know this is just the beginning for you; there’s so much more that you can learn and share.
I have a lot of ways that I could describe and congratulate you today, but let me return to a recurring theme, one that to me easily characterizes you: you’re my hero. You are undergoing a transformation as a result of all you experience, but more remarkable is your active transformation, driven by your true self, regardless of challenges or difficulties.
I see strength and conviction but also humility and curiousity. I see character and integrity. And I see a bright future for you and those who know you. And I see the world as being a little better for that.
Congratulations Ian, on this special day.
Before I address Ian, I’d like to say to the Unitarian Society: Thank you – for all you have given to my son; for you acceptance and attention and love; for providing a place where he can grow and feel secure in his developing convictions; where he can learn the value of his unique journey.
Ian, like your mom, I’m very proud of all you’ve accomplished thus far. And it’s exciting to know this is just the beginning for you; there’s so much more that you can learn and share.
I have a lot of ways that I could describe and congratulate you today, but let me return to a recurring theme, one that to me easily characterizes you: you’re my hero. You are undergoing a transformation as a result of all you experience, but more remarkable is your active transformation, driven by your true self, regardless of challenges or difficulties.
I see strength and conviction but also humility and curiousity. I see character and integrity. And I see a bright future for you and those who know you. And I see the world as being a little better for that.
